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Catching up from vacation
Hello steps! Just getting home from a week of vacation. Thought I would update a few things. Dh and I decided to compromise on how to vacation this year. Me and my bios spent the first few days alone and had a wonderful time. Met up with dh and ss15 last two days to do a amusement park altogether. It was horrible. The ss was rude, hateful, and just as spoiled as ever. It caused two huge fights by the end of the trip between me and dh (this kid and his mom are only two things we never can find a happy resolution on). I honestly can't stand this kid.
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Lets help the new bloggers ...
I'm reading so many posts on the BM and dh's having too much interaction. Even in my private messages I'm being asked this. ( medical questions always stay private) give YOUR opinions please on the differences in your definition of communication and relationship. Or experiences in how you handled this issue. I think several would benefit from the feedback. '
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WW3 has begun in my stepworld
Hubs is furious because I want separate vacations.... I guess first fire will come from me when he gets off work today. Here's hoping I have enough ammo because I won't wave the white flag on this one
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Just need to rant for a min
Because dh just text me wanting me to go with him back to his home state when he takes ss home in two weeks. I don't want to go :sick: I don't dislike my inlaws. I just don't know them. I have only been around them 3 times in 4 years. I've just disengaged from them because of the relationship they keep with bm2. Plus my sd23 will want to be right under us the whole visit. I get along with her but she's going through a daddy girl phase again and we never have alone time.
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Need help from bio parents..,
The issue isn't step but do any of you ever have issues with your ex and your bios where the ex favors one child over the other? I'm about to snap and honestly don't know what to do because I've tried to talk to my ex and he just doesn't get it or care but its got to stop!
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Time to vent
Haven't posted much. Been working a lot and hanging out with the kids. Ss15 has been with me a few times off and on since I moved out. When he came for summer visit, BM let him keep the debit card which is the one he recieves cs on. It is pistes to the card every 30 days since its state-to-state( just something their home state does with out of stAte cs. ) anyways, the kid came down with over 600$ ... Stayed on Internet and blowed ALL of it within 4 wks!!! Stayed on Internet buying junk...
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Can't believe he's missing me
Since I moved out almost a month ago I have only allowed myself and my kids to spend much time with ss15. I've been making his dad deal with him and his behavior. I was really caught off guard today when HE( not his dad for once because the kid never texts me. Ever ) text me saying he missed us and wanted to spend the night with us. After much discussion with his dad and an understanding that at the first sign he starts being mean- I send him right back, I let him come. I'm actually very pleased at least for the day. He's been great.
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While we are on the topic of appropriate affection
Just wondering what opinions you all have on Facebook posts to adult kids... Is it appropriate to leave like 4 postings a week to an adult daughter ( 23 yr old) that says things about no matter how big your daughter gets she will always be your baby/ little girl? Every. Single. Week.
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Not sure if its good or bad
Well for over two weeks now I have been living back in my own home with my two bio kids. There's so much peace not being there in the middle of the problems with my ss15. But I do miss my dh. Having time with my kids have been awesome not trying to stay disengaged at the same time. I'm afraid I like this too much. But dh is sad to say a Disney dad who is just now figuring out that he has let too much go on and hasn't respected or backed me when I have tried to talk to him about the problems.
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Not even three days into summer visits and BM is already calling
BM2 is already at it... Just got ss15 on Friday. I haven't hardly been around him at all ( been disengaging for about the last year) his sister by bm1 is here also. She is 20 and lives on her phone and takes lots if pics. So bm2 sees pic yesterday of her son and notices in background of all the pics we have of my kids and several of older skids and only one of hers...well duh... A. The kid will NEVER take a pic unless its just him and his dad. Nobody else. And I'm not putting out a hundred pics if that. And b. we haven't gotten any pics if him from school or sports or anything in 3 yrs.