ok, me and my DH have been together for 2 years and living with my daughter and his son for a little over 1 year now. DH and BM were already sperated when me and DH met. BM left my DH and my SS for another man on my DH's b-day with my SS in the car.eww!! me and my DH met at daycare,, aww , so the few times i would see BM i would say hello and she never said anything i was like forget this.