ok so please no judgemental responses. I got my dd a phone due to problems her bdad is having in his home (making her want less time with him). so smom texts her (she's and i texted smom (whom i dont have the number to) telling her that i got the phone mainly for direct contact for me and bdad and emergencies my dh helps her on the phone but doesn't have it written or programmed in his phone.

ok so i've been SERIOUSLY stressed out lately (so bad i'm having health issues) so i've been trying to figure out different ways to figure out how to lower my stress so i don't make myself sick.

ok, so i have a DECENT not great but decent relationship with my skids. We were at a movie rental place shortly after picking them up for the weekend. I just noticed in the store what my skids were wearing (normally dress like rag dolls) my yougest sd had an outfit on that looked REALLY NICE on her, and i told her...sd that looks REALLY good on you (meant it sincerely). she stuck her tongue out at me and said ugh and walked away :jawdrop: . i told her loud enough for dh to hear (but he didn't) that was really rude! i texted him about it, and shut myself off to her until she apologized.

ok so my dh and i are thinking about getting pg with OUR first child this summer (will make the 4th between us), we've talked to the skids about it and they are "OK" with this thought since it will take their room away from them (can't afford a bigger house and dont' see the point in getting into 1 since they both will/should be working by the time baby is in own room anyway), they agreed are never there anyway's and really dont' have much to take away (a few clothes and a bed that they rarley use and a BUNCH of leggo's that they obviously can keep here to give them something to play with)