These calls from the clink are killing me. SO takes every single one- they are costing us a fortune, and this dipsh*t waste of life calls daddy multiple times a day so we can pay to listen to his whining and self pity. Now that he has been sentenced, he wants to bitch about his public defender, overhnk about what might have happened had he taken his case to trial (yea I'm sure a jury would fall in love with a chronically-criminal waste of oxygen with no job or treatment history who is shocked there are consequences for robbing people).

So, BM decided to hitch a ride with their oldest son to the jail (she doesn't drive) and, I'm sure she waited in the car while her son went into the jail to pick up SS22's property, including his cell phone. BM calls SO releatedly on Sunday, and sends him repeated texts with screenshots of text message conversations that show he was arranging drug deals. In fact, since SS22 was incarcerated, she has found reasons to call SO every day to process every thought and feeling she has related to their little sh*tstain. So I snapped and told him to set boundaries with her about calling daily.

on 4  felonies and a misdemanor. He is to be sentenced in a month. They ordered a pre-sentence investigation which may involve interviewing family members and looking at their invovlement with the law. If they are doing their job, they will realize that his mother has been a fugitive for over a year, hiding from her own warrant from a drug/impersonation case. They kept his high bond and put him back in the clink- where, barring his dad, brothers or mom winning the lottery, he will remain through his sentencing.