my "stepdaughter" has been lying to her bio mother ;about me off and on for the last year and some change. I have tried to talk to her just one on one without her father ad I thought it worked we spoke about how she felt and why she said all the things she did.(side note) the reason I chose to talk without her father is because she gets really shy and closed in when he is around. but I digress now we are back to this cramp again !