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Sick YSS and our weekend

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Submitted by SM12 on Fri, 01/31/2020 - 2:03pm

Well I figured out why YSS was so grumpy this week, he is sick.  I had very little contact with him this week so I wasn’t aware of this until after he had gone and of course after he contaminated the entire house!   

It seems not only is YSS sick but so is MSS and OSs.   Not that we ever see MSS and OSs.   

I was shocked to hear DH say he hoped YSS doesn’t come for his visit this weekend because he is sick.   Not that smash doesn’t care but because my bs is coming home and we had plans to go do things and YSS would not feel up to it.  

Thanks for the reminder YSS

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 01/30/2020 - 6:51am

Maybe it’s the fact my BS is coming home for a visit this weekend or who knows why, I had the warm and fuzzies!   As I’m walking down the hall to give DH a kiss goodbye I was thinking to myself....”Next weekend is DHs birthday. Maybe I should plan for YSS to come over that night and we can all go out to dinner to celebrate”.  I mean it isn’t like OSs or MSS will even acknowledge DH so why not make it a good evening for DH.

Waiting for the knife in the back

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Submitted by SM12 on Wed, 01/22/2020 - 12:35pm

It’s so sad how whenever BM does a nice or the right thing, we sit back and wait for the knife to come get us in the back.   Because no good deed goes unpunished.

Accodring to DH/ BM divorce decree, they alternate kids for taxes.  One year DH claims one and The next year he claims two of the kids.   And EVERY single year she has found a way to screw us.  It’s to the point we actually try to guess how she Screw us over taxes. 

Now that OSS is an adult and MSS will not quality for child tax credit, we expected yet again to get shafted. 

DH can’t take hint

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Submitted by SM12 on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 2:52pm

I have noticed a lot lately that DH is asking YSS a lot of questions about OSS and MSS (who have been PASd for 3 or more years).  He is doing it in a friendly and non confrontational manner and acting like it is just Norma conversation.  However, it is making YSS uncomfortable.   Last week I was witness to these questions and I started cringing.  Not because YSS showed much objection but just because I could feel how odd it all seemed.  

Well YSS finally told DH he didn’t want “put in the middle” the last time DH was asking about YSS and MSS.   

O/T it had to laugh at this

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Submitted by SM12 on Mon, 01/13/2020 - 12:12pm

DH and I have a group of close friends we have vacationed with, spent time with for about 6 years. We used to be even closer but a few years ago one woman in the group, I will call karen, for jealous that I and another woman ( her supposed BFF) were hanging out too much.  Now this bff and I live next door to each other and Karen lives in another town and the bff and I were working out together.  Karen was invited to join us but never did. 

Thursday Throwback Funny

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 01/09/2020 - 1:48pm

I was just reading something online that reminded me of one of the funniest moments of unintentional payback/karma in step hell.

Just a reminder, OSS and MSS have been PASd out for at least 3-4 years.  And have been horrible spawn to DH for no reason.  That’s PAS for ya.

So probably 3-4 years ago, OSS and MSS we’re still coming around but regular and pretty much only when they wanted something.   

If I was petty

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 12/12/2019 - 1:29pm

YSS spring on us the other day, last second, that he has a band concert that night. Great (insert eye roll). I just love having to attend boring school functions last second.   Well I went with DH to keep him company and it actually wasn’t bad.   They played 6 songs and we were out of there.   I didn’t notice BM or her SO anywhere but didn’t look too hard.

Same Crap different Skid

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 11/28/2019 - 6:19pm

DH and knew it would happen eventually so neither of us are shocked, just tired of a third time through skid hell. 

Yss13 is the only kid that comes over.  Older two SSs have been successfully PASd.   YSS is a decent kid but starting the hormonal jerk stage.  Moody and pouty. 

Yesterday YSS was home with me while DH worked.   It wasn’t a big deal for me since I work from home.  My job is demanding so I am at my desk from 7:30 am until 5 pm with breaks to grab a bite to eat and take it back to my office.  Especially on a short work week.

Oss found a mini BM

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Submitted by SM12 on Mon, 11/25/2019 - 9:44am

We have been getting tidbits of info on OSS from YSS.   YSS still comes over and we haven’t seen OSS in three years.  Oss is due to graduate college this spring.  From what YSS says, OSs has the job of a lifetime lines up after Graduation and has a pretty great future.  We are all happy for him despite him being a jerk to DH.

BM is driving herself crazy

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Submitted by SM12 on Mon, 11/18/2019 - 3:44pm

Since DH has literally no relationship with OSS and MSS, BM has decided on her own that she will provide everything for MSS and we are responsible for everything for YSS.  Oss is an adult and on his own in the courts eyes.  We don’t really care since YSS comes around and is mostly a decent kid.

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