Needing pearls of wisdom and/or shared experiences!

My SD27 is getting married in May. At first she told my husband that I could come as long as I didn't create any problems (yeah - I know - I am 56 year old trouble maker).

After many couple therapy sessions I recently shared that that I realized I said I wouldn't go because I was trying to protect my husband's feelings. Our therapist responded, "I am not normally this assertive but I am compelled to be right now - your wife needs to go - she belongs by your side".