My stepdaughter (of whom we have 50% custody of) just told her Dad and I that she wants to go live with her Mom full time. I know that I am not her real mom, but, I love her as if she were my own. I have no children of my own, and never felt the need too because I had her. For years, we have done everything we could for her - in fact, we just purchsed a much bigger house so that she could have a bigger room and her own bathroom - something very improtant to a pre-teen girl.