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My ex is such a loser

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Which in turn makes me feel like a loser for the wasted 13 years. Supposedly, on the 28th he's going to jail until May for criminal trespassing.

He told me his GF didn't come home at all one night so he pitched her shit into the street. He felt bad about it later and went to where he thought she would be. I guess the friend answered the door and said he better leave and that the cops had already been called. He said he was arrested at his apartment.

Um...no

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For some reason, SD has it worked it her greedy brain that when FDH and I get married she's getting a pile of gifts. Um, no...the pile of gifts is for the bride and groom meaning your father and I. This kid never stops thinking about herself.

In relation to a comment on my blog post from this morning

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FDH honestly has no clue on how to handle SD6's jealousy. She is supremely jealous. Hits and kicks BD2 for no reason. Is constantly taking things away. You'd think this kid has never played with other kids before. It causes a thick presence of tension in the house. I don't know if there's anything I can do to help FDH cope with it, especially since he's sensitive about her. He knows she's downright rotten. So how do I deal with it? Is it even possible for me to deal with him not dealing with it? :? It's tiring.

why?!

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Instead of using the toilet, SD6 decides she's going to take a shit in BD2's potty chair. WTF I come into the room in the middle of this. FDH is outside. She's cleaning this up with supervision. This shit is never happening again. Pun intended.

Ungrateful Little B

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I have had with SD6 and her ungrateful attitude.

SD6 has been sleeping with one of my BD's or on the couch when she is over. One of my coworkers was giving away a twin size bed so I jumped on the opportunity to get SD6 her own space to sleep. I do believe that kids should have their own space and we have been meaning for awhile to get her her own bed. Before FDH lived with us, they were cosleeping which is wrong on so many levels but thats not the rant here(basically b/c of space and financial reasons).

Had a wonderful vacation!!

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We all just had an awesome time. Spent 9 days in the mountains of Georgia swimming, tubing, hiking, eating, and just plain relaxing. We rented a huge cabin with a beautiful mountain view and a hot tub. Almost every night was spent in that hot tub with wine glass in hand watching the sunset. It was gorgeous, we all feel recuperated, and FDH and I feel closer than ever. Bonus is SD not coming with us!!! I spent two weeks without her and it was great.

On some good notes

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After some much needed sleep, I was able to think with a clearer head about all the worrying I was doing last night. And I must admit, I feel pretty darn ridiculous. I refuse to punish FDH b/c of past emotional hurts caused by others. It's not fair and I will NOT be that person.

I still think its inappropriate for them to private message each other, but deep down I DO trust FDH and I really don't think it went beyond that first private message. After all that, all I was doing was kicking my own ass last night. Looks like I have some past emotional baggage that I need to check.

BM's new boyfriend's ex

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So we all come from a pretty small town. Everyone at least knows names and faces of most people in town. I went to high school with BM's new boyfriend and his ex. BM went to our same school but is a couple years younger. BM's new boyfriend's ex and I used to hang out in the same crowd. We don't really know each very well and have never really hung out at all outside of school. FDH knows her through some connection between his dad and her dad;they worked together or something of that nature. We are all FB friends, except between BM and I, and BM and her boyfriend's ex.

To do the right thing or do what I want

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So this is prob very selfish on my part. My parents invited us(my bio's, FDH and I) to go vacation with them. Stoked of course. Havent been on vacation in forever. Last minute just between my dad and i, he offered to get SD a plane ticket to come with. I havent said anything to FDH about this yet. .We habe this kid constantly...her mom works part time amd shuffles her around from place to place and nvr has to parent. I rly dont want this kid to come with, it would totally ruin it for me. i was happy gettimg two whole weeks without her. Do i do the right thing, suck it up and invite her?

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