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I called it
DW and I found out a few months ago that we were expecting. We decided to wait until the 12 weeks timeframe to tell people. Of course we decided to tell the kids (SD9 and BS4) first. DW wanted to video tape their reactions to use as an announcement...
DW thought SD9 would be excited about it, while BS4 would be upset. I told her I knew exactly what was going to happen: SD9 was going to get very upset, cry and whine, flail about, and threaten to move in with her dad permanently. BS4 would be interested, but wouldn't really understand yet.
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Shaking my head
For the last 3 years or so I've routinely told DW that SD8 does not speak appropriately to adults. She is very rude, back-talks constantly, gives huge attitude when asked to do something, and is a general smart-ass. This has pretty much been the case since I met her when she was 3, but it has gotten worse as she's gotten older. She won't dare speak to DW this way (and when she does she is punished), but with me it is pretty much constant.
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School service hours
So, I've touched on this before, but we have SD8 enrolled in a charter school. One aspect of being a part of this school is that families are required to do 20 "service hours" for the school. If these are not done, the child cannot return the following year. In order to meet these hours you have to do activities at the school - car line, lunch duty, special events, etc. You can also donate materials (but not money) towards these hours.
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Covering for BioDad Again.
Why oh why, DW, is it our responsibility to cover for BioDad?
SD8's payment for BioDad's portion of SD8's insurance and after school care is due. Technically the insurance is due the first of every month, and the after school care is usually the first week of the month. This month they are 1/1 and 1/5 respectively.
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Poor, neglected child.
I've been hemming over posting this for a week now. I'm not really sure why, I guess because I just need to get it off my chest.
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Won a battle, lost the war?
So, Halloween is over... and it went pretty much how I expected. Another huge fight with DW, followed by exactly what I did not want to happen happening.
First, after lots of discussion (read: arguments), DW finally agreed to make Halloween a yearly affair. Meaning one year SD8 would be with us, the next she would be with her father, and so on. It was like pulling teeth getting DW to agree to this.
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"You can't care more than the parents."
This has been my mantra lately. I repeat it in my head daily when SD8 is here... or when she is not here and DW tells me something she did while with BioDad.
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"Why does everything bad happen every day?"
Because YOU cause it to happen, SD. YOU are the reason for all of your problems. No one else but you.
This has become a familiar refrain in our house, especially the past week.
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O/T Nuclear radiation
So, I've been following Rutherford's blog about not being able to have kids and this has reminded me of a situation in my extended family.
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Imagination and lack of
I have been thinking about this for a couple of days, comparing and contrasting the behavior of BS3 and SD8 when she was BS's age. The differences are amazing.
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