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You didn't Tell Me
So, I disengaged about 5 months ago now and they are trying to turn the wheels on me again with "You didn't tell us" bs. Not to us, but to "BM friends daughter whose daughter is friends with DH friends wife." I do not consider those people as friends and have no room for busy bodies who have no role in my every day life. Is this senerio not so High School. And these people are Grandparents now. Great Role models for kids right. Teach them young to be entitled and Bigots.
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BM friends need to mind their own business..
These are grown kids in their 30's and on their own.
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Those kids are your kids now..
If you marry someone who already has kids from previous relationship, those kids are now your kids and you should treat them as so is what someone told me.. FALSE.. The words sound good, but in reality that can't be more FALSE of a statement than ever before..
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Step Parents aren't Real Parents
So, I'm getting this you don't have the parental bond of giving birth to the children, so what you think doesn't matter nor should you have a say... Just shut your mouth and sit in the corner nicely while my kids walk all over you is the mind set of what a Step Parent should be..
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Step this over..
ALL, literally ALL, my life(mid 60's currently) I've been a Step something or other. My natural father left when I was 2 and has never been around since. Mom remarried when I was 9 and that is when I first understood Step designated family mean nothing and have certain expectation applied to them that normal family do not. I'm a SD, SS, SM, the addopted one, the second one and many more designation describing a second class citizen of traditional family lifestyle.
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