I don't post much because I feel a little guilty that my step children (fraternal twins, age 9) are actually good children. I mean, they are children and I often have to repeat myself, but all in all, they're good kids. I'm not a person who is thrilled about children in general. In fact, I never planned to have any of my own, but my husband of 3 years is so wonderful I had to make a try. So the problem isn't the kids, it's their mother. This woman, and I admit I am biased, she makes very bad decisions. For instance, she left DH for a convicted felon she met at her night cleaning job.