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You guys called it, he knew about his kid

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Submitted by rajuncajun on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 4:14pm

Well Ladies you called it. My husband is a scam artist and a fucking liar. My attorney friend came over and I have a consult scheduled with an attorney from her firm this afternoon. We did some investigating of our own and here's what we found.

*Excuse my language, I'm drinking wine and I'm pissed*

Pulledd cell records - Yep, he's been calling the whore for over a year. Just found out he had a fucking kid my ass! That's as far back as I went, but I am going to assume he's known for quite some time.

Update on DH'S Surprise kid

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Submitted by rajuncajun on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 11:14am

It's over. He bought a house in the town where his daughter lives. He left me.

I am a wreck. This happened last weekend and I have stayed home all week and kept to myself. I haven't told any of my family yet. I guess if I don't say it out loud, it's not true.

After the first visit DH was all about being a Dad. All he wanted to talk about was his precious daughter. I tried to understand. I tried to cope. He didn't want to do the normal things we did together. Everything about him changed. Every conversation we had lead to her.

NEW HERE

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Submitted by rajuncajun on Thu, 04/12/2012 - 12:48pm

Hi everyone!

I'm new here. I found this site searching for step parent advice. I just had the shock of my life. I have been married to a wonderful man for 2 years. My husband and I live in the city. We are both career oriented. We have worked very hard to climb the corporate ladder. We have a loft in the city and we both enjoy a nice quiet life. I made it clear to my husband before we were married that I did not want children and he agreed. Neither of us were married before.