A phone call and the paranoia
My husband received a phone call last night which I believe was from SD18. My DH kept his voice very low and wouldn't look over at me. She wanted something because I heard "well, I thought you were working tonight." and "No, I'm not worried about that"
(For those who like to judge you're going to have a field day with this next bit)
So while he was in the shower I went through his phone, and every single text from SD18 had been deleted. (My DH never deletes text messages)
I'm just so paranoid that she (SD18) is going to try and weasel her way into moving in (which I wont allow at all!)
she (SD18) only calls for money and for the use of DH truck. I went to the store and came back and the truck was still there. DH could have given her money while I was gone, but hell, we are tight on money since I quit my job to be a stay at home mom. ugh.....
Just needed to let my paranoia have a voice.
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These things happen to me.
These things happen to me. And I too read messages. I have to if I want to know what is going on. DH will tell a half truth when it comes to the skids, so that I wont get mad and he wont feel like he is in the middle.
And I too get the paranoia,like okay what is up, what is next?? What kind of b.s., drama, stress is about to come piling down on my life because of these damn skids.
(((HUGS))) no real advice.
He knows my stance, but I
He knows my stance, but I think he will still try. I don't blame him, I would hate for any of my children to be "out on the street" But she has a job, she cant go back to BM because BM is tired of her crap too. (and im talking like throwing things a cross the room at people tantrums) She is just... a monster and that's putting it nicely.
Every time I say anything about his kids he immediately raises his voice on the verge of screaming saying he doesn't want to hear anything I have to say because "I hate his kids"
It sucks being a Stepparent.
Ooohhh WOW...I love your
Ooohhh WOW...I love your wording here. Perfect way to prime someone for what my SO has called "the Spanish Inquisition" (since I ask such pointed questions).
I'm so stealing this. Thanks bunches!
I found out that the SD18 is
I found out that the SD18 is trying to move home with BM. We will see. But at least I can calm my paranoia.