We celebrated our Christmas on Saturday, and it was perfect! No stress of rushing around to other family's houses. We just sat around enjoying our selves. It was great!

So yesterday my DH got a call from BM. She was saying that sd14 has been sneaking around town meeting up with older guys with her 16 yr old cousin. And on one occasion a guy shoved her down, then started texting her threats of being assaulted, clothing ripped off, and I dont know what else. Of course this is not ok, if this is truly happening.
DH called his mother to ask her about this, since the older cousin is in her care. Before DH could ask any questions (after explaining the situation) DH mother starts going off on him. So then a screaming over the phone match ensues. Well after hanging up with his wonderful mother, BM calls. And then something is brought up about sd19. And DH is yelling about how sd19 needs to straighten her shit out since she wanted to play mommy but with the way she is acting she was not ready for it (DUH!?!?!). Then DH starts yelling about how sd19 has been telling everyone what a crappy dad and grandpa DH has been. So now another fight between DH and BM starts.
DH then starts yelling "I text her Happy Birthday and she refused to respond to it, because sd14 told me sd19 said she didnt care that i text her"
Well, duh again. Sd19 only cares to talk to her "daddy" when she needs to borrow the truck or to get money from the Dad ATM.

Thank GOD I used the force and foresaw a disaster in the making and have made plans to be at my mothers for christmas (with my kids too) instead of dealing with DH's freak show.