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I wanted to say thanks so much for all of your comments on my post
..I was really feeling guilty for not wanting to keep them. I am generally a helpful person but at some point this all has gotten waaay out of hand. He told me if I am not doing it (keeping the kids) from the heart than don’t do it at all.. OK??? But I am DOING more than he is.. I am DOING what he isn’t even doing himself.. I do not even say ANYthing about the fact that all the responsibility of our own son is on me but that is MY child and MY Responsibility so the fact that I am doing everything for our son I don’t even think twice about..
I am still confused as to my role,duties, and responsbilites as "stepmom"....
So to recap my back story DH has taken a job out of town (2hrs away) got an apartment (which I have not been too yet he has been "living" there for a ill over a month now comes home on the weekends). The Step kids (5,6,&7yrs old) come to our house every other week for a week (Friday to Friday). Since the new job he has their mom keep them Mon and Tues. I pick them up form school Weds and will keep them till Friday morning dropping them off at school. DH recently informed me that the reason he had their mom keep them was because I was complaining to him.
HELP!! AM I DOING TOO MUCH OR IS THIS WHAT IM "SUPPOSED" TO DO!
Hi Ladies I need some real advice lol im not sure if I’m doing too much or is this part of the stepmom job description. In short I am a BIO mom of 2 (17 &3yrs old) and have 3 step kids which are (7,6,&5). They are with us i mean "ME" every other week for a week at a time (Friday-Friday). I pick them up from school on Fridays.. they are general with me ALLL the time. I feel as though the BM and I are the ones that are switching off.