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I am sick of the interference

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Submitted by purdy on Fri, 05/11/2007 - 8:15am

I have not been on in awhile so hello to everyone.I have some issues that you may be able to give me some advice.Yesterday my sd called and asked to switch weekends because its mothers day and she wants to spend it with her mom.Anyways My husband and i dont go out and do anything hardly ever so we planned this little cruise thing for 1 day and now that our weekend is switched it will land on this day.My husband and i are now fighting because i got angry about this and he told me that i only care if it interferes with my life.Well i have had nothing but interference from the ex witch lately

Broken hearted

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Submitted by purdy on Thu, 12/14/2006 - 8:20am

I wrote a little while ago about my son moving to his dads in another province for 1 year and decided to let him go.It was the hardest decision in my whole life that i ever had to make.My son is so happy and looking forward to flying out this saturday.I am a basket case and probably will be for the next year until he returns.I have spoken to people about this and they have all said that i am doing what i can as a parent and even though i am totally heart broken and will miss my son dearly i have put my sons feelings before mine and that makes me feel like i am doing the right thing.My son m

I dont know what to think

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Submitted by purdy on Wed, 11/15/2006 - 8:37am

Yesterday i got my husbands cell phone bill in the mail and when i opened it i saw that he had 5 calls come in from the town his ex lives in.He was working in the next town and he said that maybe it picked the signal up from her town but every other call picked up the signal in the town he was working in.I dont think that his co worker would call 5 times in one day.I would question this to him but he would get mad and say i dont trust him but its not him i dont trust it is her.He has never done anything to betray my trust do you think i should question him on this?

Just wanted to say

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Submitted by purdy on Tue, 11/14/2006 - 2:41pm

I just wanted to say some things it may be a little off topic.I am sort of new and all of you have given me advice and led me through some hard moments and made me see things in different ways.I have laughed and cried reading your posts and it is so nice to talk to other people.I hope i have helped you out in some ways.I just wanted to write this just to let everyone know that they do make an impact in someones life.

Am i being selfish to my son

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Submitted by purdy on Mon, 11/13/2006 - 8:26am

I have not seen my ex husband in almost 4 years because he lives in a different province but he does call my son and talks to him alot which is good.Here is my problem my son wants to move with him for 1 year because he misses his dad badly he did go and see him for 2 weeks in the summer.My ex seems to have gotten his life together has got a house and has a girlfriend whom seems to show intrest in my son which is important.My dilemma is i would not see my son at least until summer when he can come and visit me.I know that a boy needs his father and it would break my heart to say no to him b

Worst night of my life

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Submitted by purdy on Thu, 11/09/2006 - 2:35pm

Well we are in quite the mess we went to our lawyers last night and it was a real jaw dropper.First let me explain things my husband worked last year for a company and this year he started on his own so they are basing his child support payments on last years income which this year has been harder because he is just starting off anyways the child support they are asking for we just cant afford it and they are not taking into account that we have bills a loan and a dependent my son still living in our house so our options are we either pay this amount they are wanting and leave us with just

What does this mean?

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Submitted by purdy on Fri, 11/03/2006 - 12:45pm

We receieved a letter in the mail today from our lawyer and since we have not been to court yet to settle child support issues because my sd just moved back with her mom the letter is stating that they want temporary child support how can they ask for this if they dont know what our income is?Could they ask for an amount that we just cant afford so if we have to do this do we have to put all of our expenses aside and pay this amount until we come in front of a judge.Also my husband is a subcontracter so his income varies all the time how does this work?

Halloween night

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Submitted by purdy on Wed, 11/01/2006 - 9:33am

Last night was ok i guess i just have a question that you gals might be able to help me out.I have noticed that the last couple holidays halloween and thanksgiving my husband has been a little distant.My stepkids have been with us for every holiday except the last few.I have 1 bio son who just turned 11 and he lives with us he never sees his own father because he lives across the country maybe once a year if he is lucky.My husband never seems to put the effort in to my son if his kids are not around for instance last night we took him to my moms house to trick or treat because we live in th

I am completly lost

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Submitted by purdy on Fri, 10/27/2006 - 1:35pm

Tonight we go to pick up the kids i dread the drive because we never get home till late.I am already feeling sick to my stomach just to think of having to pull up in front of her house.I am not a hateful person but i hate her.My husband will not talk about his past to me because he says i am always trying to compare does anyone else do this?We are trying to have our own child but no luck this past year i am going to be going to a fertility clinic but it saddens me that he had 2 kids with her and we are having such a hard time.Sometimes i think that he doesnt care because he already has 2 ki

My story

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Submitted by purdy on Thu, 10/26/2006 - 12:08pm

I am new so please bare with me.My husband and i were married in july of this year he is a quiet very gentle person my issue is my sd has lived with us for the past two years and this year she decided to go live with her mother which is fine with us its where she will be happy.Her mother and i have not got along since the beginning she has called our house screaming at me so loud the kids can hear everything.I also have a ss and a bio son.She has told my son to his face that i am a s### and has been rude to him when she has called.We cant change our number because the other children call th