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Made a phone call today!!!!

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Submitted by part-timedad on Mon, 10/17/2011 - 8:30pm

I called the prison where Bm's boyfriend is an inmate. I spoke to the assistant warden about what can be done to prevent my 11 BD from recieving and sending letters to moms incarerated boyfriend. The assistant warden asked me to send the paperwork that states we have joint custody and she was going to check with their legal department to see want could be done to prevent this from happening. She said that since her mom was allowing her to send and recieve the letters that they may not be able to do anything.

BM allowing BD to send and recieve letters from BM's boyfriend. (But wait theres more.)

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Submitted by part-timedad on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 5:14am

Okay heres the deal. My daughter came this weekend and we had a GREAT weekend. However while we were talking she told me that she has been sending and recieving letters from BM's boyfriend. Normally that wouldn't be a problem at all but, BM's boyfriend is an inmate in jail for armed robbery. WHile in prison he was caught selling drugs in prison. I have asked BM to not let BD have contact with him but it continues. Anyone have thoughts on what I could do. HELP PLEASE

Just need to Vent!!

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Submitted by part-timedad on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 7:19pm

Okay I need to vent. My three children have made the choice that they dont want to come to my house on my weekend. They are 15 14 and ten and decided that they dont want to come basicly because they dont want to follow the rules and expectations at my our house. What really frustrates me is the fact that apparently they are going to be at my brothers house and called and want me to come visit them there. I think this is just another way to manipulate the situation. Am I being unrealistic by not going to my brothers to see them.

I am not comfortable going.....

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Submitted by part-timedad on Sat, 01/22/2011 - 3:08pm

My 10 BD is getting baptised tommorow at the church that I used to go to in the town that I used to live and her grandma and grandpa attend and are very involved. We are talking a church that may have an average attendance of 25 at the most. A very small church to say the least.She asked me to come earlier this week.They decided that they did not wan to come to our house this weekend cause they just didnt want to. Thats a whole other issue. My thing is that I am not comfortable going to her baptism at all. I know I should go for my daughter but I just can't make myself go.

The weekend!

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Submitted by part-timedad on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 10:55pm

If you read my first blog entry you know that I have been having issues with my children. Well i get a phone call from my bd and a text from each one of my bs's telling me that they arn't coming this weekend!!!! I have a ton emotions right now and not sure what to do with them. Its not the fact that I dont want them to come on their weekends it the fact that when they are here they refuse to show respect to myself and my wife. I told them that when the left the last weekend that I wanted them to come tomy house because they want to be here.

New to the site.

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Submitted by part-timedad on Sun, 01/16/2011 - 2:56pm

I am new to this site. First of in July I got married to a terrific women who has put up with alot of crap. I have three children from a previous marriage. Son 15 son 14 daughter 10. The children live with their BM in another county.