So after a recent post about how Voldemort isn't supposed to contact me, she does. She sent me a text yesterday asking if ss9 could come over because he wanted to hang out with dd9. I responded with, "Sorry DD and I have plans so tonight is not a good night."

Transcription of recent texts between Voldemort and dh, brought to you by: The letters F and U, as well as the number 1. (I'll be calling dh "Rick" for the purpose of maintaining drama)

Voldemort: Rick-the last weekend of this month I have a training to go to in the city. The kids will need to stay by you the 26-29th.

dh: Voldemort- I too work all four days that weekend.

Voldemort: Ok. Well they can sleep by you and I'll get Kate, [the nanny], to help out.

dh: Was there a request in there somewhere? I get home from work at best 11:20pm.

Okay if this posts, I'm gonna feel really stupid.

So last December ysd was 14 at the time. She wanted to get her nose pierced, dh was fine with it so was bm....until bm found out that osd, ysd and I were going together then it was NOT OKAY according to Voldemort. BM cited that ysd was too young and needed to wait and that was it. Okay fine. Fast forward to April of this year, ysd turns 15 and rather than letting the original plan go on, Voldemort sneaks ysd off to get her nose pierced. Osd and I are disheartened, but let it go and run off to get our noses pierced a month or so later.