Ok, I'm not a fulll stepmom yet, but man do I feel like it at times. 12SK told her dad last week that she didn't want him to bring me out to his parent's for dinner. After I had been MIA for the week. Hurtful. I have done everything to try to make a connection and help my boyfriend to raise her.

Then tonight he starts a fight with me, in front of her! He was upset with me over something that I did that was insensitive and he was hurt. However, that doesn't seem to be a good excuse for arguing in from of the SD!