Ok, so I know I'm no longer a SM, but I just had to vent to a group a ladies that would understand.

In my last post, I left my boyfriend and his 13 year old daughter, because he's a fucking idiot.

It's been over a month and everytime I try to move past this anger and resentment, he's got to call me and bring it all back up. He thinks he's still got a chance at getting me back. And while I can't say Never, his chances of getting me back are as close to it as it can be, without actually saying the words. I've been realizing how much I gave up for him and his daughter.

Now maybe I'm overreacting, however, how would you ladies react to finding that your SO after getting pissy with you (http://www.steptalk.org/node/180952) went to the bar, met up with a mutual friend, who is a girl, then she and her friend came back to his place to drink some more and play some cards?

He did nothing to hide it, at least, but sure didn't offer it up the first time I talked to him this morning.

I feel horrible, because I'm having a hard time adjusting to having SD full time. Granted it's temporary at this point, custody case is still to come. However, SO has had her full time for 4 weeks now.

She drives me insane! I'm thrilled to still have my own place to escape to and hang out with my dog. I don't even want SO to come over and hang out. I am also going through a grieving process, which I've never actually had to include one person in, let alone two. One of them a 13 year old immature girl.

Is it just me or should a 13 yr old know how to unplug the toilet she stopped up? Or at the very least, tell her dad?! I feel asleep early last night, SO woke me up to have me go to bed. They both have off today, but stayed at my house. I get up this morning, mainly because SO was snoring in my ear...kitchen is a mess and the spare bath is plugged up. I use my own, so I'll just be leaving that for the two of them to figure out.

I would be so embarrassed if she did this at someone's house! Grrr...Thankfully I have two....