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Website for BMs??

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Submitted by NoDramaMama on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 4:29pm

I think we are all very lucky to have this StepTalk site for us to come to for venting or support. I do wonder tho, are there sites such as this one for BMs?? I did a Google search, but nothing really comes up as a well-organized site as StepTalk. I would really want to read their thoughts; it may help me understand why they are as crazy as they are. Has anyone found any good sites?

Father's Day

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Submitted by NoDramaMama on Mon, 06/14/2010 - 1:25pm

I don't know if I should get a gift for my BF for father's day. I already picked out a card...but not too sure how I feel about getting a gift. He has a son, and I know that BM is probably going to get something for him. I feel like he is a father, but not to my child, so should I bother get him anything? I know that sounds horrible, but that's how I feel. Also, the fact that BM will get him something for him from her boils my blood and makes me want to one up her...however, that's a bad reason to get a gift. Is a card good enough?

Haunted House Part II

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Submitted by NoDramaMama on Fri, 04/23/2010 - 4:56pm

Last Friday was my first entry....it was also last friday that my BF brought up the conversation of his house...we were at dinner and he brought up the house and when the trustee sale was suppose to happen. I didn't know what a trustee sale was and asked him what that meant. He just said he wasn't sure, maybe foreclosure, maybe not. So he asked me, "What are the repercussions if I keep the house?

Am I overreacting? Haunted House

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Submitted by NoDramaMama on Fri, 04/16/2010 - 4:23pm

This is my first blog entry. I will try to keep up with the many issues I deal with every week. The problem of the week is this: Bf wants to keep his house that he and BM lived in with their son. We've talked about this before as he was making his decision to short sale the house...however, it's been months and the potential buyer pulled out. His realtor is quite pushy, wanting him to keep the house. He knows how I feel about him keeping the house...I would not feel comfortable living there, let alone hanging out there if he lived there.