Does anyone else find this to be VERY STRANGE?!
Okay so we heard through the “grape vine” that SD5’s mother had flown to Vegas last weekend when we had the kids and gotten married…now she did tell us that she was “going out of town” for the weekend and would pick SD5 up late on Sunday…NEVER SAID A WORD about getting married! So…my husband told me the other day that that is what he heard….well…I should be a detective b/c I found the online records of the Clark County Recorder and low and behold….she did go get married…now mind you she is 35 years old and has never been married before…but she runs off to Vegas and gets married and obviously didn’t even tell her daughter…b/c TRUST she would have told us! I think it is odd…she didn’t allow SD5 to attend our wedding and now she’s ran off and gotten married w/o her being there and I think it is kind of sad that she didn’t get to see either one of her parents’ weddings (my husband and her were never married)…also…I wonder why the “secrecy” b/c when she found out that we were getting married she got all sad with my husband on the phone and said “I’m glad you found someone, I know I’ll find someone too one day” so I’m surprised…also she is VERY VERY VERY materialistic and I would have thought she’d have a horse drawn carriage and the whole nine b/c she is just show offy like that….so the only conclusion I can draw is that she cannot be too proud of this decision…well…I’ve also found her new husband’s rap sheet online and it is a mile long….aggravated robbery, burglary, stalking, telephone harassment and 3-4 domestic violence charges from BOTH of his ex-wives…so hmmmmm…maybe that has something to do with it?! Nonetheless….I sent her a “congratulatory” e-mail…b/c at the end of the day, I believe marriage is a God Ordained institution and I really do wish them well for SD5’s sake….what’s done is done…and the other reason I sent it, quite honestly, was to be a little snotty and say “If you were tryin’ to hide it for whatever reason, SORRY, CATS OUT THE BAG!!!
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That's crazy!
Wow Nise ...that is strange. So now your dealing with not only a crazy ex but her crazy criminal husband as well! I think it's great that you sent her that email. It's probably driving her up the wall trying to figure out how you found out her 'secret'! lol.
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Wow, I would feel very uncomfortable knowing that my SD was going to be around a person with such an extensive criminal record...much less my bio daughter. I wonder what type of redeeming qualities this guy has that made him husband material...
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This is very strange! I
This is very strange! I would be keeping a watchful eye on this guy!
Yeah they’ve been living
Yeah they’ve been living together for about two years or so…we’ve met him and he puts on a nice front as being a upstanding individual…of course that’s before I did my little web search and found his criminal history…funny thing is I’m sure biomom knows all the stuff I found out about him and just doesn’t care…she is a trip! My husband said that she is one of those “types” of women that wants to be beat up…when they would argue she would hit him and push him and “dare” him to hit her back and when he would just leave the house instead of get physical with her she’d say it was b/c he was a “punk” …so he said now she got what she’s always wanted…it is scary for SD5 to be in that type of environment….like I said we are in court as we speak dealing with child support and parenting time issues so we will see how that goes…quite honestly, I don’t think the courts will take his criminal history into consideration at all and I think that until something bad happens (GOD FORBID!) , there is nothing that they are going to do…sad but true!
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Hmm....
Sounds like a shot gun wedding, ya know?!
I would be concerned about that guy too!!
Dawn
Been there done that! We had
Been there done that! We had no clue she was even dating anyone. All of a sudden we see her name in the marriage liscense section of the tribune. And she stared signing her last name different but not a word. We heard throught the grape vine that they had met a month earlier. Honestly I think that she did it shot gun style becasue she wanted to beat us down the isle. My husband and I had a nice well planned out wedding, she knew the date. This wedding of hers took place one week before us. ANyways.. never saw the "stepdad" didnt even know his first name. They divorced not even a year later, once again she didn't tell us, noticed her signing her maiden name again on letters to us. A friend through the grape vine let us in on the story and his name and why they seperated. Isn't that just insane!!! WHy hide whats happening in your life. Not that I care about her but major changes like this affect the children involved. NOt long after our friend told us they were divorcing, my stepson told us "he" the stepdad was hitting his mom. He must have been afraid to tell us while it was happening. Maybe thats why she was so shady about the whole thing. We contacted our lawyer when stepson told us this, we were gonna try to get custody, but lawyer said as long as stepdad is out, you have no grounds. Whatever.. Nise, keep a close eye. Ask questions. Be a detective. You just never know.
My friends X...just 'snuck'
My friends X...just 'snuck' back together with her abusive X BF. He found out via her sister...X is hiding it from both my friend and their teenage kids. This guys's a real moron!! Then again, she is an even bigger one for going back to him.
She moved BF in when my friend moved out of his house, with my friend still paying the mortgage. (BF's a sponge) Then she cashed out her son's college fund..used it for a down payment on a house with BF. (Real winner eh?). He didn't put her name on the paperwork..and threw her out..a year later. Put her stuff out on the lawn....and locked the doors. He has a horrible temper.and she was often seen bruised.
SO I wish all the best to the Happy Couple(s) ..!!!!
......I do feel kind of bad for their lack of self-esteem and self-respect to be in those situations. No-one deserves to be beaten!
It's all about self respect...
It is very strange..but in my eyes, she isn't proud of what she is doing and that is why she keeps it a secret. My dh's ex learned of our plans to get married, so to beat us, she ran out and married the next guy she saw! That lasted 4 months (that guy was actually really nice...but couldn't take her insanity). Then while they were divorcing, she got pg on a one night stand, and tried keeping her pg from us until birth. It was a secret as to who the daddy was b/c since it was a one night stand, she wasn't sure if he was going to stay in the picture, not to mention it's a little embarrassing being pg and not having a boyfriend around. She told my ss to keep the baby a secret...we heard it through the grape vine, and learned a lot more gossip than my ss would know.
She talks like she dumped the father b/c of his immaturity..but that is so not the case..he was her sex friend, and wanted nothing more to do with her but to wipe his a$$ with her...
Dh's ex has such low self-esteem and absolutely no self respect, that is why I think she does thinks so randomly, and tries to keep everything top secret..until it blows up in her face, and then needs us to raise her oldest son....
How did you find out about this?
Please let me know what web page you used to find this stuff out!
I think it would be helpful for others.
I don't want to say to much
I don't want to say to much to give away my location...takes away from the 007 aspects of this site...but basically what anyone can do is run a search for their county's web site i.e. google Candyland County and and Clerk of Courts and State...this will take you to your clerk of courts web site and it will allow for you to do a public records search....criminal and civil cases, realestate tax/property info, marriage license, etc.
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