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Kids switching roles?

I feel like SD and SS are switching behaviors.

Last time we had SD, I told DH to ask BM if she would be ok with SD staying overnight Sunday (when we usually take her home) and DH can just take her to school Monday morning. My reasoning was, SD's school is only 5 minutes from our house and BM's house is 40 minutes away. DH still wasn't working and it would save us gas money and wear on the MY vehicle. Instead of asking BM, he asked SD. Normally SD loves staying at our house. She has always said yes to extra time.

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Liar Liar pants on fire

There are some days that I just really hate BM.

Two weeks ago she text DH telling him that he needed to register SD because registration day for her school was during our weekend (last Saturday).

OK, no problem. Last Friday, I looked it up because I wanted to know what the timeframe for registration was. BM had the date wrong. It's actually this coming Saturday, which is during BM's time. I told DH and told him to pass the info on to BM.

Ego Boost

Over the weekend SS was putting away dishes and I was getting dinner started.

I was joking with him saying that we were having liver and onions.

After a little back and forth, I told him we were actually having meatloaf.

Skids and DH love my meatloaf.

SS: Have you ever eaten my moms meatloaf

Me: I've never eaten anything your mom has made

SS: Well, it's horrible. It's like a huge blob of meat. It's taste horrible

Me: Well the secret is...

And I went on to tell him how I make meatloaf.

DH is driving me crazy

This man really really needs to go back to work.

I really want to give him a swirly.

Last week was a no skid week. We didn't argue once. We get skids on Friday and had two arguments on Saturday.

DH asked me several times last week what I wanted to do this weekend. I said each time that we need to go get SS's school supplies and shoes. We bought him $300 worth of clothes when he moved in full time in Feb and it all still fits. So, we aren't buying him any clothes.

OT Dog Grooming

I have three dogs that need groomed on a regular basis.

For years, I took them to the local Pet Smart but when we moved into our new home, an old friend of DH's told him that her mother grooms dogs. We have taken all three of them to her once and our Yorkie a second time.

I had DH contact her last week to get my middle dog cut. She said she was out of town but would be back over the weekend. We still haven't heard from her.

So, I'm thinking about the pro and cons of both places

Delusional Daddy and the day SS's glasses magically broke

Last we heard from Delusional Daddy he was fiercely defending his stance that going behind Ninji's back to help BM wasn't actually a favor to BM but was in reality "for the kids"

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Fade in

Somewhere in central Florida

We zoom in on a tan office building and continue zooming through the walls until was see a women sitting bored in her office

Ring Ring

Ninji picks up phone "Ninji McAwesome how can I help you"

Delusional Daddy in a morose voice "Hey"

Ninji brightly says "Hey, what's up"

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The story of DH and his Lawn

DH mows the grass.

He is the only one that mows the grass.

When we first moved in together, I mowed the front and he moved the back. Only, he didn't really mow the back. Summer in FL. It rains and rains and rains. That means the grass grows and grows and grows. At one point he hadn't moved the grass for 6 weeks and the grass taller than our dogs. Every time I let them out I would have to brush all the hitch hikers off of them.

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Sitting at my desk in tears now

Someone explain this to me. How does something like this happen.

We just got the final judgement for the CO modification.

For those that don't know. BM decided she didn't want SS11 anymore in Feb. We contacted a lawyer in Apr to get the CO changed.

BM still has custody of SD13

What was requested

-Change primary custody of SS to DH with BM getting SS every other weekend

-Cut CS in half (meaning we still pay her for SD but she provides nothing to us for SS)

-BM provides transportation for her visitation time with SS

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Poor Poor SS

On Tuesday DH started with his "kids have been really behaved this week" ...("week" meaning 3 days)

I just nod my head and go about my business. He said it a few more times that night. I ignore him.

>>>SS was "behaving" because he wasn't in school and we hadn't taken him out in public. Also, just last week we found a trash bag full of stolen food in his room. BUT he's behaving.

The next day, he starts on "We need to talk about SS getting his privileges back" I ignore him

Later that same night, he said it again. So, I took the bait.

Funny or Just Sad

I posted yesterday about FIL asking his son's if they had heard from their mother.

When FIL asked, DH said he hadn't talked to her in about a month. His brother said, "Yeah she told me she met a guy three weeks ago and they are already getting married. Who does that."

SD13 was sitting there and said "My mom does"

DH didn't hear her but it made me laugh at first but now I just feel sad for her. BM can't go a week without having a man in the house. Her and stepdad called it quits just a few months ago and she had a new guy in the house in less than two weeks.

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