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nicole's picture

FH got a dentist bill in the mail...I open it and it is for his ex wife of 5 years...Has is name and my address, but shows work that her and 20 year old daughter had done...Now why would he be getting this bill...This is his ex wife and ex step daughters bill...He says that he ran into a friend that works at the office and gave them his new address for an invitatin to a 50th wedding anniversary party they where throwing..The friend is a secretary at the dentist office...Remind you he hasnt bee to the dentist in the year he has been at my house, but did get a reminder at my address a couple weeks before the bill for ex came...Could the friend changed address on account and it just happen to come to my house or do you think he is paying this..She is remarried and has been for over a year now....I dont know what to think or believe.

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frustratedinMA's picture

I would send it back to the dentist office w/the ex's correct mailing address on it with a note. There must be some confusion. FH lives here. EX lives here.

nicole's picture

could he be paying this bill?? He says "No way in hell would i pay her bills"......so he says....Im not so sure....

bellacita's picture

who has been divorced from Bm for years, that sometime she still gets mail for her or w both of their names on it. and hes been in 2 different houses since so im not sure how this would even happen. but it does and i know its not bc of anything DH is doing.

that being said...w UR situation unfortunately i wouldnt put it past him to be paying for it.

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nicole's picture

i ask him for the bill and he ask me why..i told him im sending it back to dentist and he said no that there is no reason to do that he took care of it......so there ya go

sparky's picture

He said that he took care of it but that does not mean he paid it. He could have taken it to the dentist office and had them change the address.

nicole's picture

he said that he called them and had it changed that it was a mistake...and then threw the bill away.

SM#1's picture

do the same. Check if the money came out, it seems sneaky to me. You might want to call the office yourself, if the office says the your FH already called then just apologize say you did not know he already called.

BMJen's picture

for SD20's medical bills. We just forward them on to her. We get them because my DH carries the insurance so the info comes to our house. But Beast Bitch was taken off the medical when they divorced.

I assume that he had to keep her on the medical per the divorce decree?

If so, don't sweat it. That's the reason. If not, I'd keep an eye on my account and maybe even call the dentist office to, well you know, check to make sure that this bill is being paid on time. Wink I'm sure the receptionist on duty wouldn't heistate to let you know if the bill is being paid, and check the address, and the last payment date while you're at it.

melis070179's picture

Do you have access to his accounts to see if he paid it? I would also call & tell the dentist office you got a bill for someone that doesn't live there & you want to make sure they take your address off her account.

"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"