I've been with my fiance for over 3 years now, we live together  he has 4 girls (13,12,9 and 7) who visit every Tuesday and every other weekend. I have an 11 year old. We are supposed to get married next year but I'm a bit reluctant because of his kids  They are very rude, disrespectful and quite b**chy which affects my daughter and I because we are quite friendly and don't deal well with drama. I believe in having respect in our home but they are disrespectful to me and their dad. Every time his kids come over there are fights and constant moaning.