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Getting snapped at for talking to SD11...

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Last night i brought it up to SO that his dear little princess has decided not to comb her hair or shower anymore. I let him know that's why her hair has looked so awful, she throws it back in a pony tail and never Combs it out. We both agreed that the next morning she would be required to shower and comb her hair before school or he would comb her hair. Well, he wakes her up then treks off to his hour in the bathroom. So i take initiative and have her get in the shower.

Pee smell SO bad it literally burnt my nose.

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SD11 in the past 5 days has peed herself so much and the odor was so foul that when she brought her clothes downstairs to the washer the odor burned my nose. I wish I could describe it. I have been around her for two years and never smelled anything so foul. Before anyone tries to give advice we have tried EVERYTHING. She's been to a Dr and we have tried every bit of advice given by them. Shes seen a counselor, even that didn't help. The counselor said she is so much of a liar she couldn't make any progress.

I'm not doing it!

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SO wants to make all these kids and do absolutely NOTHING. I'm done! He does nothing for out daughter. He gets upset at me for leaving her in the room with him. I have to do everything for her and with her. I need to go to the bathroom? I have to ask to leave her or take her with me! The kids were all awake and inmy face, so i woke him up and he stats going off on me abouthaving to take them 2 hours back to their moms today, and the drama BM1 tried to start yesterday, like ANY of that is my fault.

Watching daddy dearest reap the rewards of how he raises and treats SD11, is it wrong to LAUGH behind his back?!

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I won't go into too much detail. Basically SD11 is starting to act like a little teen. She ignores what she is told, started with the arm crossing, feet stomping, talking back, ect. She has been allowed to run the house and she is now beyond out of control. And poor poor SO is just sitting back dumb founded and clueless and I can't help but laugh at him. Its sad really. He used to ignore her behaviour and he still does, but more and more it is crossing over and starting to affect him, and I mean really affect him and theres no ignoring it all.

Just the one...

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I have 3 skids. And two out of the three are great! They are truly awesome kids. We had a rough start but now they cry when they leave and say they wish I was their mommy. But my SD11 is still a monster. I'm having one of those Weeks where I really want to throw everything away because of her. I'm still here because I'm too stubborn to let a little girl run me off. But I can't handle another 7 years of her. And I'm pretty sure it will end up being a life time as her dad will never say no to her. I hate this kid, I know I've said that before. I REALLY HATE this little sh*t. Bad week...

I HATE her!

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It has come to the point that a hate this manipulative, vile, disgusting little sh*t. I can't stand to be in the same room as her. It makes me gag when she kisses her dad on the mouth, that same mouth he kisses me with. I've tried everything. It's been 2 long years and I can't imagine another day with this little witch living in my house. I've hit my limit and I can feel myself reaching my breaking point. She disrespects me, my house, my stuff, my pets, my boyfriend(her dad) and I'm just sick to my stomach over it. I wish her mom would just take her back.

SD10 peed in my f'n car!!!!

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I'm so pissed off right now. SD10 had FINALLY been doing better. She hasn't peed herself or the bed in a month, school has been good. NOTHING has changed besides we have given her more privileges. She gets to stay up 30 minutes later. She is allowed to choose to go to her mothers on the weekends. She is allowed video games. Well, Friday night her dad tells her she can stay up as late as she wants, do whatever she wants (she was playing video games). What does she do?? After gaining all these privileges she doesn't want to stop her game so she sato there and pees...

I just don't want to do it anymore...

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I'm really over it. I just don't see a way out and I really do care about my SO. But I'm so over everything right now. The BMs the skids the way my SO is about it all. I'm done. I'm tired of having to give up everything of mine and everything I want for the other women and their spawn. I don't want to do it. I get nothing out of the situation. My SO is so busy playing video games and taking care of everyone else that he doesn't have anything left for me. I give and give and give and have nothing left.

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