My bf and I have been together for 7 years. He was divorced 2 years before I met him. At the time I met him, he had a son 6 and another son 12. The solder son never accepted me and made my life a living hell. The younger one was indifferent towards me. He struggled in school socially and was always attached to his father. He would always tag along with his father, even though my bf did try to get him to do his own thing. 2.5 ago, the older son who was 17 at the time, called me a fu****** cu**. It was the last straw for my bf and he made ss17 leave.