My husband retired last year at age 57. He has two grown daughters, the oldest (36) lives near us, the other (30) lives 3 hours away. We have a pool at our house and during the summer the oldest comes over and struts around in her bikini all day, never wears a cover up, even in the house. Half the time she has her friends over and when I get home it's like Hugh Hefners playboy mansion in my backyard. Her friends flirt out right with my husband and are all either rude or totally ignore me like I am invisible. He acts so ignorant when I point it out to him.