My husband retired last year at age 57. He has two grown daughters, the oldest (36) lives near us, the other (30) lives 3 hours away. We have a pool at our house and during the summer the oldest comes over and struts around in her bikini all day, never wears a cover up, even in the house. Half the time she has her friends over and when I get home it's like Hugh Hefners playboy mansion in my backyard. Her friends flirt out right with my husband and are all either rude or totally ignore me like I am invisible. He acts so ignorant when I point it out to him. I have two grandsons that sometimes come and swim along with their teen male friends. Is it wrong for me to expect the females to have some modesty? My husband thinks I'm just jealous. Their relationship is a little weird anyways. He still manages all her $ and she has yet to succeed in a relationship. Both his daughters are rude to me, ignore me, speak over me. I could go on and on. Recently I told him I am going to quit taking it so personally as it is not about me and I am convinced if they had their way he would be alone the rest of his life. I have one surviving daughter around the same age as the SDs and they treat her like crap too. Although she gets along exceptionally well with my husband. They hate that. I try to stay out of their business but sometimes I struggle with him not noticing how they treat me. I struggle too with his babying them and stocking their bank accounts and cupboards. Never a thank you for my gifts at Christmas and birthdays, never a happy birthday from them and recently the younger one took a trip and returned with two gifts for him.. She gave them to my husband while I was sitting right there. Could have just as well said screw you to my face. So glad I found his blog. Thought I was going nutso. We met after his marriage dissolved. We have been married 11 years, dated 5 before that. I have lost hope that things will ever get better. I am in my dream home and dread the coming summer.