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edit : husbands says i need counseling because i wont leave sd14 alone with the baby after her threat

the mum's picture

His child causes trouble but me and him are the ones that need counselling!!!! I could of just slapped him sideways!!!

I declare-

Your kid decides to wash her muddy trainers by the baby's bottles at the kitchen sink

Your kid takes the lid of the babies medicine and moves the box so I know its been done on purpose

Your kid threatens my (our) baby but I'm the enemy

Your kid says you will never pick anyone over her (in our faces)

Your kid lies about me

Your kids have no manners and don't wash everyday

Your bm is constantly involved in our lives for the kids ( while I'm in labour giving birth as well)

Your kid stands behind the door listening to my conversations while I'm on the phone

Your kid listens to our conversations behind the door, you know it even catch her but you don't even mention it (creepy or what) at 14

Your kids are messy I should clean it up

Your kid needs counselling

Your kid is rude to me and is bullying me in my own home

You sleep with your kids and not me

You want your kids on our honeymoon

You are manipulated so I must be as well because you can't see it

Your kids need half our income beyond what you must pay for child support because they are so important and you just hear the moaning about bills and he don't have any money

You should basically kiss his kids ass that don't deserve a hello because she needs the world

the kid has no manners but of course you should never mention it because how dare you when you are only the woman that saved his ass from going mad and being a crack addict (no messing)

Do we deserve better?

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ddakan's picture

you mum, deserve better. hold him up to your standard then. the skida re a pain in the ass...he doesn't have to make it worse by being a doormat.

Last-Wife's picture

I told my husband someone in our house needed counseling and happy pills- so if he and the skids weren't going to go, I was! I did, for 18 months. I learned to stand my ground. I also learned I was strong enough to walk away, if I choose to.

I decided to work it out. That was 10 months ago. My marriage is better than ever. (Sending a skid to college did help...)

Yes, you deserve better. See the counselor.

skylarksms's picture

Yeah, my H tried the "you need counseling, NOT me!" thing on me about 6 months ago. I went and found out that H is verbally abusive!

I bet he wishes I would have NEVER went to counseling!!

Take care of you and yours as TOP PRIORITY.