Stbxh is pulling his shit again about me getting the rest of what I want out of the house. Hello dumbass...we've been seperated for 2 weeks. We, unfortunately, had to file for bankruptcy last year due to medical bills and being laid off from work, we filed Chapter 13 (I think) where we have to pay back out debts through a trustee. Well for the past year those payments have been coming out of my paycheck. We have an appt. to go see our bankruptcy lawyer next week to see about splitting up the payments and what our next step is regarding our house.

Just got a text from stbxh asking me when I'm coming to get the rest of my stuff out of the house. I'm so mad right now I could spit. He's pulling this shit on me while I'm at work. First of all we have an appt. with our bankruptcy lawyer next week and I just feel like it would be safe to wait until after that but, if he wants to play hard ball then fine let's play. I, for some stupid reason, was trying to be nice but I'm done with that now. Him and his little whore can live in the damn floor for all I care.

So this weekend was ss13 weekend with my stbxh. About 6 this evening I get a facebook message from ss13 asking me to call bm. My first reaction was oh what fresh hell is this. So I call her concerned something might be wrong with ss even though its not my problem anymore. I almost wrecked my car because she told me she was sorry for what was happening politely I say not your fault but thank you. Well then she proceeds to tell me stbxh cheated on her too!! Wtf she couldn't tell me this 8 years ago?

Sat down with H last night and had a long talk. He doesn't want to try and save our marriage so I have no choice but to let him go. I told him I knew it would be hard but that we could get through this but I'm not going to fight him on this if he wants to be done we're done. I did ask him if it was that other woman and he said no, I told him not to lie to me about it and he said I've already told you everything I'm not going to lie now. Who knows if it's the truth or not.