My husband has three children from two previous marriages - two girls and one boy. The oldest girl lives in PR and the other two lived in Texas. I say lived, because the ex just relocated to AK, however, she only took the son. Why, because the daughter didn't want to go. Now, my husband and I recently got married in November so we're supposed to still be in the honeymoon stage. When we first found out about the relocation, we had a conversation and decided now was NOT the time for any of the kids to come live with us.