It’s been almost 3 months since I left my husband while I was 9 months pregnant. I had our beautiful daughter almost a month ago. Still at my moms and same living arrangements. Husband comes around frequently to see our daughter and I welcome him being there for her. We’ve been hanging out and he seems to be doing well in his drinking. He cry’s often and says he misses me and our daughter and begs us to come home. I have my son enrolled in school now here and can’t leave even if I agreed to move back. He says he’ll go to marriage counseling but we haven’t gone yet.

I didn’t mention in my previous blogs that husband was planning a baby shower for me. It’s this coming weekend. I feel like it would be so awkward if I went to it even though he’s begging me to go. All his family and friends will be there. Non of them have texted me or called me to see how I’ve been doing since I left 22 days ago. So I know this is all for him and the baby. Nothing to do with me... I believe he will be keeping all the stuff at the house and won’t let me bring any of it home to where I’m staying even though the baby will be living with me.

It’s been 7 days since I left my husband after a domestic dispute that he ripped my pregnancy clothes and threw them in the shower to get wet. Ripped hangers out of my hand and pushed me. After he promised he would want nothing to do with me if I walked out the door he’s now asking me to go back. I think mostly since he needs help with watching his 2 kids for him and his ex. Got to the point where they left me the kids while she went to go get her hair done and he went out to get some drinks while I was stuck at home with his 12 and 6 year old and my 12 year old son.