I came here to see if what I am feeling is normal or if others are going through the same thing. (Before anyone judges my next comments, please know that I acknowledge and and feel very ashamed for my selfishness) I do love his kids and they are good kids. I just dont want them over all the time, I find myself getting angry when my husband wants them to come over, I feel like I just tolerate them, When I spend time with them alone without my husband, I really enjoy thier company, but I feel like I am competing for his attention when they are around. There it is said.