So my teenage SD(16) recently moved in with us, her moving with us was not planned, She came to visit for a weekend and decided not to leave. She came with no clothes or shoes and her mom hasn't and I don't think ever will send any of her stuff. So we had to start from scratch in every aspect, She has never stayed with us for more than a couple weeks at a time, she has always lived out of state with her BM and SF. Up until now I have never really had any issues with her. There has always been issues but its mostly been between my husband and her mom.