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Submitted by marthagender on Thu, 07/09/2009 - 2:04pm

thanks to all those who read my blog. your advice is helping me keep my sanity. things are not prefect but at least everyone is getting along for now. i hope it gets better.thanks.

oh and one more thing, if you ask you ask your dh what is his number one priority, what should he say?

TRYING TO START OVER

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Submitted by marthagender on Mon, 07/06/2009 - 8:20pm

this is my first marriage and i want it also to be the only one. i know that their are a lot of wiser and older women in this site. so im just seeking advice for my situation. well my husband and i are back on talking terms again. about a week ago we were about to get a divorce over his 7 year old daughter. i tried talking to him about our situation he did not want to here what i was saying.

IM SO DEPRESSED I FEEL LOST AND MY BABY IS THE ONLY ONE SUFFERING

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Submitted by marthagender on Fri, 07/03/2009 - 5:38pm

MY BABY IS THE ONLY ONE SUFFERING THANKS FOR THE ADVICE MOLLY I DID TRY TO TALK TO MY HUBBY OH BY THE WAY DID I MENTION THAT HE SELPT AT HIS FRIENDS HOUSE FOR TWO NIGHTS AFTER THE WHOLE MUSIC THING. WHEN HE DID COME HOME I TOLD HIM THAT WE SHOULD SEEK COUNSEL HE SAYS HE DONT KNOW. HE SAY I JUST DONT LIKE HIS DAUGHTER FRANKLY THIS IS ME NOW GIVING UP. WE HAVE A 10 MONTH OLD SON TOGETHER AND I DONT WANT MY SON TO BE RAISED UP IN THIS ENVIRONMENT WERE HIS FATHER BAIL WHEN EVER WE HAVE AN ISSUE ABOUT HIS OTHER KIDS. ABOUT ABOUT HIS BABY DONT HE NEED HIS FATHER TOO. IM TIERD SOME PLEASE HELP.

PLEASE HELP

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Submitted by marthagender on Thu, 07/02/2009 - 4:08pm

IM NEW TO THIS SIGHT, HI EVERY ONE FIRST OF ALL I HAVE A 10 MONTH OLD BIOLOGICAL SON A 7 YEAR OLD STEP DAUGHTER AND A 14 YEAR OLD STEP SON. NOW THIS IS MY PROBLEM MY STEP DAUGHTER GETS ON MY NERVES. WHEN ITS ONLY ME AND HER SHE LISTENS TO ME BUT AS SOON AS MY HUSBAND COMES AROUND SHE STARTS BEING A BRAT. YESTERDAY ME AND MY STEP SON WAS AT HOME LISTENING TO SOME MUSIC WHILE I WAS COOKING. THE SEVEN YEAR OLD WAS OUT WITH HER FATHER UNPON RETURNING SHE TOLD HER FATHER SHE WANTED TO WATCH TV AND MY MUSIC WAS BOTHERING HER HE IN TURN TOLD ME TO TURN OFF MY MUSIC BECAUSE SHE WANT TO WATCH TV.