I feel SO bad for saying so, but I really dont know where or how to express. My husband has to sons, 8 & 4. They are bad. We have them every other wkd and some wk nights. Not as much as my DH would like. But its truly enough for me. I do love them, so please dont get that twisted and have their best interest at heart. But their mother's influence and issues are pushed onto the boys. Their mother has no respect for things and doesnt clean her apt and lets her cat piss everywhere. The boys reak when they come to our house.