At this point I feel like faking my own death to avoid being in the same room with this woman. DH and I had agreed months ago that it would be best if she stayed out of our lives. She has tried her hardest to cause problems for us from the very beginning. She has told DH that he needed to leave me I wasn't good enough for him, that I wanted to control his life, that I he is the man and should make all the decisions if he wanted to buy a new boat even though I said it was a bad idea because we needed to fix the car he should get his boat anyways because he is a man.