BM of SD14 informed us last night at her middle school graduation (!) that SD14 has a new bf. He is 17. She met him through a friend at a trailer park. She now spends all of her free time when she is not with us at said trailer park. We knew this but she was telling us that she had friends (female) that lived there. Once alone DH asked her when she was going to introduce him to her bf. She did the :jawdrop: face and said "How do you know, did my mom tell you?" He said no, I just know everything. Now DH wants to start doing random trailer park drive thru's.

2 more days of school for SD5 and then she will be on summer break. DH's parenting time order simply states "reasonable parenting time as the parties agree". We have always been successful in creating our own parenting plan...but as SD5 ages and we ask for more and more time it is always nerve racking because you just can never be confident how BM will react. BM is a great mom, loves her daughter, and sincerely misses her when she's gone.

Daughter is having a horrible week. Screaming at teacher's, throwing things, refusing to do her work. I don't know what to do. We have tried every punishment that we can think of and nothing has worked. Short of starting to do physical things like putting gross things in her mouth or I don't know what I don't have any answers. I called the principal today to speak with him but I doubt he will call me back since he didn't before. I left a message with Education Service Agency.

He actually said it. Ha. It's been a week and I feel like I can finally blog about it. I will be blunt. My husband is a jerk. I know this, everyone knows this. It is who he is. I love him anyway.

That being said my husband is barely a parent. Sure he loves his girls but he cant be bothered with them. He participates in the fun stuff sometimes but otherwise he is there to open the tight lids and reach things on the top shelf...and for occassional (and I mean occassional) babysitting duties.