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After the failure of first marriages.

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Submitted by Macystarz on Mon, 05/16/2011 - 8:02am

It seems after the failure of my bf and my first marriage, it seems that we both have lost our freedom. We have our children thinking they have all the say of our relationship and our parents have the say too, and still the ex's have say. Well not my ex as my child is not my ex's.

My bf's parents won't allow bf and I to date, and neither will his kids allow it. It is good his parents don't live in town. Bm won't allow his parents to be in contact with his children.

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Submitted by Macystarz on Sun, 05/15/2011 - 10:01pm

Hello, I am in a very complicated relationship! I have a 10 year old boy and my boyfriend has a 9 and ten year old boy. I often feel like I am at the bottom of the totem pole. My BF boys come first, his job where he travels 50% of the time, and his ex that seems to be able to call all the shots.

He has signed the papers months ago and his ex won't. Even though it was she who left him. She blames her lawyer as her excuse for not signing.

His sons don't want him dating and he carries guilt for the family breaking up even though it is his ex who had affairs and left him.