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i talked to him

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Submitted by lucija on Tue, 08/06/2013 - 12:12pm

so i talked to my husband about this whole room thing. and he said that he doesn't agree with me, but if i want to take one of the rooms i can figure it out with SDs and he'll respect whatever we come to. i told him that i shouldn't be solving it with them but he says they're not little kids and i can discuss it with them. i asked about SD9 because she IS a little kid and he just told me to talk and see. I said I think he should be the one to figure it out with them,but he says he doesn't agree with me at all in this situation so he can't represent me in this cause with them.

taking a room

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Submitted by lucija on Tue, 08/06/2013 - 8:35am

Ok, so i decided to take one of the rooms for the baby. the 9 year old's spare room because i figured that she would give the smallest reaction and plus she doesn't have too much stuff in there.
i'm just going to put the crib in there, a little closet and then arrange stuff on shelves. that's it.

i figured this would be the only solution.. well i'll do it

to clarify

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Submitted by lucija on Mon, 08/05/2013 - 2:16pm

i cant just move out because i dont own a property where i could move, and i dont have enough movey saved up to buy one. i have a job, but it's very low pay and it wouldnt be enough to rent anything. i used to rent an apartment before i married but back then the apartment would be cheaper, and it was only for 1 person. now its me and baby, and my paycheck went down twice since then. i wouldnt be able to rent a home. i have a sister that moved to germany 20 years ago and she's not talking to me or actually anyone of our family. the rest of my family is in bad financial situation.

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