DH awoke out of his cocoon, he emerged like a butterfly....his rose colored glasses not only fell off, they shattered into a million tiny pieces!!!!! He and I had a long talk last night, even after I told him I wasn't going to say anything about the situation anymore, I just had too. I was seething inside. I told him I have known about what SD has been doing for SO long and it has been eating me up inside. I asked him to ask SD what she and the bf have been doing on skype, and I hope if SD and bf break up, he isn't embarrassed by SD behavior at work. (he works @ school where bf goes in a different town). He just looked at me, got up when in SD room and took away her computer. He told her she will not be seeing him anymore. Her response was, "we aren't doing anything" he just looked at her and said, "i know what your doing, you can text him and talk on the phone but that's it, your too young and I don't like any of this."

We spoke about how SD should be tested for herpes, I told him, SD said her bf never kissed anyone before her, so she probably got it from someone else and gave it to him. He agreed. He and I both agree SD should be on BC but not the pill because she is so irresponsible. I told him, SD may be complaining that a shot hurts but pushing a baby out hurts even more. I reminded him how we didn't want any children and that's why I had my tubes tied. I told him if SD gets pregnant, she will have to live with her mother because I refuse to raise her baby. He agreed. He asked me what he's supposed to do now, I told him SD CANNOT go to bf house anymore, if she wants to see him, his mother can drive him here and they can hang out with her door open and if not when DH and I go out on the weekends she can stay home alone. I am going away tomorrow morning, I told him this weekend SD will either stay home or go out with him. He doesn't want SD with him right now, he is sickened by her. Not to be a bitch, but that makes me happy! I told him SD has to much leeway and she needs to have more structure in her life. She's been doing what she wants for the 3 years she has been living with us and DH needs to stop trying to be the "cool dad". Then he said he thinks SD is mad at him, I said Good. He said he doesn't know what to say to her right now and what should he do. I said he didn't have to do anything or say anything, that's the joys of being a parent, you make the rules. He did it by taking away her computer and telling her NO for the very first time in the 9 years I know him, he finally told her NO. WTG DH!! Now hopefully, he will follow through and not listen to and believe SD lies.

I shall keep you all posted. Thanks for holding me above the water these last few days. With your help, I have not drowned....