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Solidarity SAHMs/Ds

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I love all the people here who think SAHMs are worthless and expendable. As if our contribution somehow doesn’t count. The money my hubby makes is *our* money. I’m not sure how any relationship succeeds if the person staying st home is deemed ‘less than’ just because they don’t work a paid job. I am so glad I have the DH I do. Someone who knows that my contributions in unpaid work are worth just as much as his and I am given money accordingly. He’s also thankful I am not high maintenance as I just require the bare essentials.

Fed up, hubby does not understand nor respect that I am disengaging

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i met my partner over three years ago and I immediately took on 50% of the parenting responsibilities for his 2yo daughter. I have been the fall back person for everything and was even taking her on ‘dad days’ when dad was gone for work and BM was at home doing whatever the hell she pleased.