So I just wanted to let you all know that i went to my therapy appt yesterday without BF because he is away on business ... me and Gary (Thats the therapist name) were talking about how i was doing a great job at dealing with things SKIDS/BM and he asked what changed. I told him that i found this website and that it was a great place for me to vent and talk to other SP who are going through the same things i am. Sometimes we laugh at each others situation (only when its meant to be funny) but most of the time its suportive. I told him that there used to be times where i would get so upset with how BF was non-parenting the children that i would go hide in our bedroom because i just couldnt stand to be around it. My BF told me that it was wierd that i did that. I started to beleive that yes maybe it was. Wouldnt you know day two on this blog and i read a blog "YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE =)" where another SP admitted to doing the same thing. It made me feel so much better knowing that i wasnt the only one who felt the things i was feeling or doing the things i was doing. So long story short Gary took down the name of this website said he was going to check it out and that if i felt that strongly about it helping me then he was going to suggest it to some of his other clients. Thank you fellow SP for having such a posative effect on my life.