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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Tue, 09/11/2007 - 12:01pm

okay, so things are back to good with me and my hubby, but of course, now it's time to deal with bb drama bullshit. dh and bb have been attending seperate counseling session, as per court order, and their joint session is this month on the 19th. she sent dh a certified letter yesterday saying that she can't make it and that her schedule is just way too full. meaning that she is going to put off counseling for as long as possible so that dh can't see sd.

bb is so stupid

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Mon, 07/23/2007 - 10:13am

so last night dh and i are sitting around, watching tv, and dh's phone beeps. text message. from crazy bb. except this time she is playing nice. just texting to tell dh about counseling and how they have to have separate sessions (they don't even offer joint counseling!). i'm sure bb was truly upset since she has been fighting to have joint. and so she gives dh the number and says call me, let me know what's going on. ahh, how nice! too bad dh has taken care of his own counseling, psycho, and no he won't be calling you, texting you, etc. what is the point? i mean seriously. what is she on?

i've been doing so well, but today i am feeling rage.

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Wed, 07/18/2007 - 3:30pm

how do you ladies (and gents) let go of the rage pulsating through your veins? it's so hard dealing with hateful, mean people! i am so not this type of person. i can't just sit here and try to pretend that this crazy bitch doesn't exist. i mean, i don't look at her myspace page, i try not to think about the havoc she is wreaking on dh's life right now (thus MY life) but still, in the back of my head and through every muscle in my body, she is there. sending her poison into my life. i really need a way to exorcise this demon. any suggestions??
please help! it's been a rough day.

i forgot this part about monday's hearing

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Wed, 07/11/2007 - 4:00pm

on top of the judge telling dh and bb that he has never seen a case this hostile (because of her, of course), bb gives him a letter supposedly by sd10 saying she HATED dh, HATED me, and HATED coming to see us. now, first off, WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU HAVE YOUR CHILD WRITE SUCH MEAN, NASTY THINGS and second, IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE HER WRITE IT, HOW LONG DID YOU WASTE PERFECTING THE HANDWRITING OF A 10-YEAR-OLD? either way, it's f'ing pathetic. the judge took one look at it, threw it down in disgust and dismissed them.

poor dh

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Mon, 07/09/2007 - 10:28am

so court was today. the judge suspended his visitation until he does at least two counseling sessions with bb. dh broke down in court because it's so unfair that bb can spew off at the mouth with her lies and yes, copies of my text messages, recorded phone conversations with dh, but yet when dh tried to explain how he hasn't gotten to see or talk to sd for weeks now, nothing. i know the judge is just aggravated because he told them to seek counseling. and i told dh back when the judge requested counseling to just do it. don't get me wrong, i know why he didn't want to.

can someone even file false text message harrassment??!!! :)

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Fri, 06/29/2007 - 9:35am

lol. so we are not getting sd AGAIN this weekend b/c bb doesn't think it's wise and she wants to talk to dh. sure i can see how that works...UUUGGGHHHH. why can't i just drive the 55 miles to where she is and beat the living daylights out of her?? won't i feel so much better afterwards??? or maybe i should just scream as loud as i can right here in my office...

i'm feeling left out...

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Wed, 06/27/2007 - 12:51pm

because we haven't even gotten to see sd for three weeks now, so nothing to bitch about...i know that sounds strange but we miss sd!!! and if i have to put up with crazy bb drama in order to even see my sd, then so be it. i've been logging on here day after day with nothing to say. this coming weekend is our visitation so we'll see if bb even shows up. dh hasn't spoken with sd since last week and that was for three minutes! i did print off some phone records though, so when our court date comes, we can have some sort of proof. it's just so sad. and i still haven't called bb. should i?

has anyone found success through dh/bb counseling???

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Thu, 06/21/2007 - 2:49pm

ok, so let's say the judge says 'dh, you HAVE to attend counseling with bb.' has anyone found this to be successful? after YEARS of bickering and lying?? i'm just trying to comprehend how three or four sessions with a counselor are going to clear up all the resentment, hatred, jealousy, etc., from bb, enough to ensure a healthy, open relationship for the next 8 years (til sd is 18). if the judge is going to say 'no your wife can't communicate with bb, you have to, dh.' what can we do to eliminate the drama???? at least when i am talking to her, i don't get emotionally involved...

what should i do?

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Thu, 06/21/2007 - 10:29am

quick update: i got back from vacation to find we have to go to court 7/9. bb has complained that dh won't talk to her and that she has to talk to me. boo hoo. she has also asked that dh remain 'consistent' with visitation (although she is the one witholding sd), and from now on wants supervised or plain terminated visitations. sure, makes sense....in crazy world. so...she has called me but i haven't spoken with her. i didn't want to waste my breath, but now i'm curious. why does it matter who she talks to? why does she say one thing and do exactly the opposite?

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