With all this abuse talk, BF blurtted out that SD14 was sexually molested when she was six by DK's Brother.

Bf has told me that Dk was molested as a kid by her Brothers. She was raped at knife point at 16, and that DK said all 3 extra marital affairs were rape. I never gave much thought.

From what BF said, the adults dealt with it. DK's Father beat the living balls out of his own son when he found out he hurt his GrandDaughter. And that was it. They never addressed it to the girl. They just brushed it under the rug.

I can't stop crying. This makes so much sence.

DK's brother told her there is a letter from me with the child support. She is on her way home now from her BF's. She called my BF earlier questioning why there is a letter from me and why I'm accusing her of being a bad Mother. Which maybe I did indirectly. BF explained I came home to the same letter. I lamb blasted both of them.

BF must be nervious, because he has not stopped talking since he got home from work. I've listened to him go on about fish oil pills and their benefit and about how they make imitation crabmeat.

We haven't seen sd14 since x-mas, sd9 & 12 since they told me about the knife thing (Mid-Feb) and sd16 since the begining of March. I have been pushing BF to find out what's going on and that we need some kind of visitation schedule. BF told me the other day 'it's sounds like couple of the girls will be coming out this weekend'.

So last night I ask him what is going on. If they are coming, I would like to know so I can plan a dinner and get some Easter Baskets.

First off, I want to thank EVERYONE that weighed in on this one. I realize that is it a very touchy subject. I appreciate the honesty you all set forth.

2nd. I am amazed at the manipulation we all face. Whether it is the BM, the skids or the bio's. I hate feeling 'played'. To me that one of the worst feelings. Exspecially from someone you love and I love my Daughter.