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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Sat, 11/02/2013 - 6:01pm

SD decides that i am the devil and she needs to express that...ok fine i am a step parent i am used to being the devil i guess. So i go in and get everything that is mine out of her room such as a purse i made her, a bag i made, some shirts and a pair of pants. also a laptop i had given her a while back. she throws a huge fit and acts like i pushed her ( moved in a way it looked like she was pushed) so now my marriage is almost over and it is all this little bitches fault. i am to the point where i dont even wanna hear her voice it make me pissed all over again...

Dont even talk to MY kid

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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Sun, 10/20/2013 - 5:36pm

I had gotten a lap top for Christmas like 4-5 years ago when i got my new desk top 2 years ago i gave the lap top to my SD. well need less to say it is broken now,,,,( i guess thats what an 8 yr old will do) but i thought it was a nice gesture. I hooked it up to the internet and it wont work.... That little ungrateful spoiled brat had the nerve to tell my that she wish i wasnt even here and that i only make it hard for her to be happy. there are time when i feel like you are damned if you do and really damned if you dont.

wanna pull my hair out.

While cleaning the bedroom

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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Fri, 10/18/2013 - 3:08pm

SO i was straitening the bed room my SD8 and DD4 share and found homework that my straight A SD got an F on in her trash can... So naturally i show my DH and I get bitched at for it. " You never say anything nice about MY kid "....

SM means all the work none of the credit. i guess i am supposed to get her up do her hair for school, make sure she looks cute, tell her to bathe, basicly everything but wipe her ass ( which she dont do at 8yrs.) and get bitched at for the whole 9 yards..... F this shit i am sooooo almost done....

This sounds so bad but...

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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Fri, 10/18/2013 - 1:51pm

My hubby has custody of SD and its our weekend to keep her... She gets off the bus at 330... it is 150 and i am really dreading this weekend.... Who else feels this way when you keep the Skids for two weeks? I am ready for SD to go to her moms already and she has only been home a week. ( she goes every other weekend )

OMG!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Fri, 10/18/2013 - 10:16am

Ok so DH bitches and moans about how i am the adult, it is my job to suck it up and treat her with respect to get it.... So i called a family counselor this morning and now he is pissed because he would have to tell BM... well you know what i have to say to that..." GROW AN F'IN PAIN" she is your ex and you have full custody of your child.... I took the extra step and tried to get it to where maybe just maybe things could get a little better in my own house. so i wouldn't have to walk on egg shells around an 8 year old who isn't even my kid.

New and need to RANT!!!

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Submitted by lilhousemaid89 on Thu, 10/17/2013 - 3:14pm

Ok so a little back history... My DH and I have had my SD for about 3 1/2 to 4 yrs now. We got custody of her because her BM moved to another state and took my SD without letting us know... but as if that isn't bad enough she moved in with a registered sex offender.

So now on to the present, I have two DD one is 4 and the other is 3 months. My SD is 8 going on 16 (as far as attitude goes) and she absolutely hates me.