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BM = HYPOCRITE !!!

lac925's picture

I'm so flabbergasted that I don't even know where to start :?

We had the kids this weekend (and it was a VERY long weekend) and BM told FDH that she needed the kids back early on Sunday (which is today) because SD8 had a bday party to go to. Okay. Fine. Well, it turned out that FDH had to bring them back a little early (2 hrs) because he had to go into work @ 1pm. Now usually when he brought them back early, she didn't complain. So we figured she'd be fine this time, especially since SD had to get ready for the party - and it's usually a couple hours before she gets in the shower, anyway. We were wrong.

First, let me tell you that once the skids got to their townhouse complex, they started fighting with each other. Why? Oh, because they saw one of their neighbours out, so naturally, they had to make a spectacle of themselves so that everyone knew they were home *rolls eyes* Anyway, when FDH was halfway home, BM starts angry texting him about "You bring the kids back when I SAY to bring them back!" and "You just want to get rid of the kids cuz you can't handle them!" (um, no. that's YOU...) and "Step up to the plate as a father!" and yada yada yada. When FDH told me this, I burst out laughing. What a HYPOCRITE! My guess is that the skids were getting on her nerves (remember, they were fighting the whole way into the house!), so she took it out on FDH because he brought the kids back early and they intruded on the last of her free time.

Well, my take on this whole debaucle is this. If she had taught these kids the PROPER way to behave, she wouldn't be so "stressed" out whenever she gets them back. These kids have NO sense of civility whatsoever. We took them to a nice park on Saturday, and they spent the whole time screaming and chasing after the ducks/geese. It was such an embarrassment that we had to leave! We can't do ANYTHING with them! And she's ragging on FDH for bringing them back early??? She KNOWS exactly what her kids are like - why do you think she's always so eager for their weekends at daddy's? SMH

We're finally at the point where it won't pay to give in to her immaturity and hypocrisy. I just thought this was funny...Like I heard someone say: "You can't argue with STUPID!" Wink

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3familiesIn1's picture

Hypocracy goes hand in hand with lazy parenting. DH and BM have the kids 50-50. They are both lazy parents. When SS6 got his flunking progress report from school, BM handed it to DH and told him it was his fault.......

um yeah ok BM - hate to tell you, but you BOTH suck - you share him 50% of the time - neither of you are doing your jobs.