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BM hasn't thrown a fit yet...Concerned..

misscinna's picture

FDH is leaving for training in another state today. Skids are supposed to come home from visitation a few hours after his flight leaves. I am assuming BM knows that he will be gone for a week (some skid will have told her I'm sure) and that the kids will be staying here with me. (school, routine, yada yada) I would love for them to spend the week at BM's with me able to go out and about and have the house allll to myself and the dachshunds but alas. No.

Here is my concern. If BM knows he is going to be gone for the week, she knows he's not here to call the shots. I am worried she won't bring them home on time or at all. She has a history of being "late" whenever she knows its just me she's dropping off to. Generally I call FDH -bitch bitch bitch, he calls sd15 - when the F are you gunna be home, what is your mom DOING? etc etc. She hurries up and all is well.

FDH will be on a plane during her drop off time. She doesn't know the exact itinerary obviously cuz skids don't either but she knows it will be today. She hasn't sent FDH any bitching text messages yet which is why I'm concerned... If she decides to keep them I cant actually call FDH and be like wtf! They didnt come home!

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oneoffour's picture

What he CAN do is text her and ask what time she is dropping them off. This sets her response in stone for future litigation.

If they are not dropped off by the time your DH's plane lands text him and ask what he wants you to do. His call.

Kilgore SMom's picture

thats probably a good idea to have talked to Bm before he got on plain. try not to worry yet. When she does drop them off just put on a happy face. Don't let her know that it pisses you off. because that is what she is trying to do. Don't say anything to the skids either. What would Bm do if DH had asked BM to keep kids for the week? DH could do this sometimes so you could get a break. But don't let Bm know its for you or she probably won't want too.

misscinna's picture

Ugh I WISH she could take them for the week! She can't because she cant/isnt responsible enough to get them back and forth to school all week. Dont get me wrong I love them all but seriously, 6 whole days too myself with just the dogs? itd be soooo good. If FDH asked her to keep them for a week she would whine about not having enough gas $$